Do2dtun: Men’s Harsh Treatment of Each Other Shapes How Women Treat Them
On-Air Personality Oladotun Ojuolape Kayode, popularly known as Do2dtun, has said that the way men treat fellow men contributes to how women relate to them.¹
Do2dtun shared the view in a post on X on Monday, apparently in response to the ongoing controversy following media personality Roby Ekpo’s account of his failed marriage.²
Background: Roby Ekpo’s Revelation
An emotional Ekpo had narrated how his marriage to Mayowa Lambe collapsed, alleging infidelity, deception, and financial pressure.³ The disclosure has sparked widespread reactions on social media.
Do2dtun’s Take on Male Solidarity
Reacting to the discussion, Do2dtun argued that men often handle each other carelessly, and that pattern influences how women respond to them.⁴
“The reason why some women don’t treat men well is because they see the way we treat each other. Carelessly, with no remorse, we bash each other and term everything as weakness. Even the one without balls will join,” he wrote.
Lack of Empathy Among Men
The media personality observed that when men show vulnerability, they rarely get empathy from other men. Instead, they are often mocked.⁵
He contrasted this with how men react when women express vulnerability, saying men tend to be more sympathetic in those cases.
“A man comes out to express himself; yet na men dey bash am pass. If na woman, una pr*ck go don hard. This man was supported by mostly women. Guess what, they will do the same for each other. E reach our turn; we turn to overnight Hercules,” he added.⁶
Call for Change in Male Culture
Do2dtun’s comments point to what he sees as a culture of tough posturing among men, where showing emotion is labelled as weakness. He suggested that this approach reduces male solidarity and affects how men are treated in relationships.
The post has drawn mixed reactions online, with some agreeing that men need more supportive spaces, while others argued that accountability should not be mistaken for bashing.